I Started Masturbating since When I Was 4 Years Old

A friend sent me this and i felt it is worth sharing even though it might not be an answer to masturbation entirely.

I counselled a young guy who was addicted to

masturbation. He told me he can't do without

masturbating. One thing that struck me in his

confession was when he said, 'my mum caused all

this for me'.

Curiosity got hold of me & I asked

him, how? He said; he started masturbating since

when he was 4 years old. ' my mum dresses up

before me, I am used to seeing her nakedness. I

am not moved to have sex with her but I always

long to see mature ladies naked just the way I

always see my mum dressing up naked before

me. I still remember seeing her nakedness

regularly till I was 8years & my dad used to shout at her, 'send this boy out before you dress...' , but

my mum would always reply by saying, 'will my

son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thoughts in

his heart'. Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I

long to see ladies' naked body, I had sex at

age 10 and till now I am not free from sex& heavy

pornography & masturbation...'

Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this?

You are dressing up before your 2 years son/

daughter& you say he/she doesn't know anything

yet? Some couples will be having sex while their

close to 2 years old child will be in their room with

them & they will feel, he can only see, he can't

understand. Sir/ma, that child does not need

to understand. Seeing your nakedness or seeing

you and your spouse making love is enough to

plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child. Why will you

destroy your own children with your own

carelessness? Don't let your children see your

nakedness. Don't make love in the presence of

your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to

the memory& they may want to explore &

experiment what they are seeing. Stopping

making home-made 'sex clips or video' for your

children to be watching. Mummy, sit properly.

Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room;

parting your legs and your son seeing your

inner thigh & pant.

Be careful! Daddy, don't wear boxers at home such  that when you sit down

your 'thing' would be dangling for your daughter to see. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don't say you want to enjoy your freedom in your house because you put your children into sexual

bondage. Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around

the house in the presence of your sons is

dangerous. Yes, they won't lust after you but you might be increasing their curiosity to see the

breasts of ladies outside. Let's stop being

'phonographic materials' to our children. To raise

sexually pure children begins at home' 

My Counsel. 



POST BY MIKE ABUDL